Eureka Eureka! It's him.

I recently came across a blog where I read

According to Wiedmer (2011, p. 38)  the bully at work often

• Possess vindictiveness in private but charming in public;
• Display self-assuredness to mask insecurity;
• Portray self as wonderful but actual behaviors contradict this
• Can’t distinguish between leadership and bullying behaviors
• Counter attacks and denies when asked to clarify
• Manipulates others through guilt
• Are obsessed with controlling others
• Use charm and behave appropriately when superiors are present
• Are convincing and compulsive liars in order to account for matters at hand
• Excel at deception, lack conscience, and are dysfunctional

And basically this is a very good description of my stupid advisor.

Here is a link to the source: 
http://bulliedacademics.blogspot.com/2013/01/academic-bullying-in-social-work.html